Niagara Gazette — I had a chance to go to see Cher Bono in concert last week. My lovely cousin had tickets she couldn't use and offered them for free.
Normally, I'm not a concert goer. I dislike congested traffic, long lines and music so loud that it vibrates the eardrums. And, frankly, that was my least favorite part of the evening.
But, it was Cher, after all. And I have loved her since I was a kid, so, I invited another lovely cousin to join me and we made our way to the arena in Buffalo and took our seats on the floor.
I was interested to see for myself what had become of Cher. Over the years, the headlines had detailed her tumultuous life — first the split with Sonny, then her marriage to and divorce from Greg Allman, Sonny's death and the transgender change of her daughter, Chastity into her son, Chaz. But there was also all those wonderful movies she made and the Oscar for "Moonstruck." And continuing stream of chart-topping records. And all those wild, revealing outfits.
I've watched over years as she made make surgical changes to her face in an effort to turn back time and I've wondered if trying to look 21 in your sixties was such a great idea or if it makes you look a little sad and desperate, clinging to years that have long passed.
And I'm here to tell you that, in person, it's clear that whatever she's been doing is working for her. Cher is turning 68-years-old this month and single-handedly recreating what golden years can look like.
The audience was all ages, but there were mostly Baby Boomers, many of whom, like me, played Cher's songs as background music to their adolescence. Her attitude of power and elegance and her continued outrageousness demonstrated to those of us who chose more sedate paths, how one might live life exactly as one pleased, regardless of what anyone thought.